"I bet you come to all his shows" is one of the stupidest things a person can say to me. Frank, but true.
It is Trav's JOB to perform. Many people do not consider performance careers as, well, careers. This mindset is tricky to overcome. My husband has been performing in public since he was a little boy. For practical purposes, music is the only job he's consistently maintained. This is how he earns money to pay our mortgage and buy our groceries. It's often a fun job, and he loves his job, but it's his JOB.
Given that performance is his profession, not his hobby, why would I accompany him to work every day?
To compare, I am a writer. I work in an office. I also teach. Would Travis come to my job with me every day? No, and I would not want him in my classroom. Likewise, more often than not, he does not want me in the audience. I completely understand. To focus and offer the crowd his [...]
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It is Trav's JOB to perform. Many people do not consider performance careers as, well, careers. This mindset is tricky to overcome. My husband has been performing in public since he was a little boy. For practical purposes, music is the only job he's consistently maintained. This is how he earns money to pay our mortgage and buy our groceries. It's often a fun job, and he loves his job, but it's his JOB.
Given that performance is his profession, not his hobby, why would I accompany him to work every day?
To compare, I am a writer. I work in an office. I also teach. Would Travis come to my job with me every day? No, and I would not want him in my classroom. Likewise, more often than not, he does not want me in the audience. I completely understand. To focus and offer the crowd his [...]